Did you KNOW?
60% of college women who get a sexually transmitted disease were drinking at the time?
(Kansas State University Counseling Services)
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The short answer is Y-E-S!
If you've already been sexually active, it is never too late to make a different choice. Those who have decided to choose abstinence after being seuxally active list the following as tops for those who want to choose abstinence:
Five Keys to Starting Over
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Make a commitment to start over. List the reasons you are choosing to change and be willing to stick to your decision.
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Find out who your supporters are. Once you have made the decision, share your commitment with friends and family who will support you and not pressure you.
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Communicate. Tell the people you date about your commitment and how you plan to stick to it. Make a decision to only date those who will respect your decision to wait.
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Set boundaries. Set limits on your behavior and communicate those limits so you don't go too far physically.
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Focus on your future. When abstinence gets difficult, remember your future goals and the reasons you have chosen to start over.
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